bleeding and swelling

So im in a relationship and my boyfriend fingers me from time to time. The first few times it was ok and then one day it made me bleed. Ive also noticed swelling of some parts down there (i did have mono for a while and i showed symptoms of a yeast infection so i dont know if the swelling and itching are due to a yeast infection or something completely different) Now everytime he tries to do it i bleed. It doesnt hurt at all, theres no sharp pains or burning I just bleed. When it first started happening I thought it was just a rip in my hymen (ive never had sex so im still a virgin) but now Im thinking it may be something else. Does anyone know what might  be wrong? Or when it should heal? Has this happened to anyone else?

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